Friday 18 December 2015

Flaws

Other peoples' opinions are not really welcome these days. The idea of a good friendship is fading away. It's not about guiding your friend into the right path. It's more about agreeing to whatever he says and syncing your opinion with his. If someone comes straight to you and tells you what he feels you should improve on, you consider him being mean or brutally honest. If he says the same amidst a group of people, he's criticizing you. And if he tells it to someone else without your knowledge, he's said to be a 'bitcher'. So basically, he has to keep his opinions all to himself.

Everybody has flaws. Everybody has secrets. Everybody is imperfect. And the worst part is, everybody knows this, but yet they're not ready to accept it. The most popular girl at school doesn't have the picture-perfect life you think she has. And that poor guy at the back of the class probably has the most loving family you'll ever find. We all live behind this wall of judgements we make about others. Often hard to break, but once broken, a sea of guilt washes over you. And next time, you think twice before judging a friend. After all, we always learn lessons the hard way.

P.S. I'm sorry if this one doesn't make much sense. I might have condensed it way too much. It's been a while and I've kindof lost practice maybe? Please let me know what you think.

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